“Being alone isn’t lonely. It’s home.” ~ Roger Lee

While as human beings, we are social beings, and we long for our friends’ companies, our partners’ or spouses’ regular dating day, it is also important to spend the alone time to experience, appreciate, and love ourselves.

How do I spend time with myself intimately? I will be sharing three things that I do regularly alone and it has been working well for me greatly mentally, physically, and sexually.

Lady reading in bed

1. Read

Reading helps me to organize my thoughts, understand myself better and help to look at life from different perspectives. Learning about the authors’ life stories, experiences and narratives allow me to find similarity and relevance to my situation. While I loved reading fiction books in my younger days, which allowed me to soak in the fantasy and my imagination, now I prefer to read self-help books. I mostly bought my books on Book Depository (https://www.bookdepository.com) as it has a wide range of selections, a large amount of reviews for me to make a decision in picking my reads, and it is very affordable! Learning is a form of investment (https://www.asianmoneyguide.com/li-ka-shing-money-advice) as well.

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Lady prepares for a run

2. Exercise

I am guilty of not spending enough time exercising as I would rather choose to stay put on my desk and get swamped with large amounts of work, or sit back and relax with food or videos. However, I would not put away with the reminder that exercise has so many benefits. Whenever I have not exercised for more than a week, I feel grumpy and restless. I listen to my body and I exercise. Exercising makes me happy, and it helps me to control my weight and body shape. On days that I want to keep my exercise timing short, I followed YouTube workout videos and I totally love it. My latest workout was a 20 min full-body workout with no equipment (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBMk30rjy0o&t=709s)!

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3. Stimulate Clitoris

Can you believe this? This stimulation relieves my stress, makes me feel so good, and even makes me orgasm. I did not know about these benefits before I used the Pleasure Air Toy but it definitely serves a good purpose in my stressful lifestyle and serves my needs well.

The Womanizer Premium Eco is biodegradable and recyclable. It also features a replaceable and rechargeable battery. I love to start the stimulation with the lower levels and gradually I increase the intensity of the air stimulation. I usually reach orgasm at around 10th to 12th intensity level. There were a total of 12 intensity levels. It is so easy to operate and charge, and it looks really cute and it is recyclable. I love the pleasure. It is available on Guardian from 280 SGD. 

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Womanizer Premium Eco Unboxing

The packaging is 100% plastic-free and is made of FSC paper, which can also be recycled.

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Womanizer Premium Eco front view

My new toy is made of Biolene – a bioplastic made from 70 percent natural materials (mainly corn starch). The Womanizer Premium Eco is biodegradable and recyclable.

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Womanizer Premium Eco side view

To switch on, simply hold the “+” button and press it to increase the intensity. Lower the intensity using the “-” button and hold it to switch it off.

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Womanizer Premium Eco Set

There is an extra stimulation head. Find the perfect size for your clitoris and discover new heights of sensual pleasure.

Start enjoying the time alone, if you have not! You may discover new things about yourself and the feeling is celebratory!


The story of the WOMANIZER™ begins in a southern Bavarian village in the Allgau. Michael Lenke and his wife decided that the outdated sex toy market was in urgent need of change. A study drew the inventor’s attention to the fact that many women have trouble having orgasms or never experience them at all, because, among other things, clitoral stimulation is often neglected. The couple’s work had its debut in 2014 when the world’s first WOMANIZER™ was launched. The patented Pleasure AirTM Technology stimulates the clitoris without direct contact. This avoids over-stimulation and the desensitizing effect. Other innovative technologies such as AutopilotTM and Smart SilenceTM also continue to ensure unprecedented orgasms. And there’s still more to come from WOMANIZER™.

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